How to Deal With a Jealous Boyfriend

by on April 18, 2012

Being in a relationship with a highly possessive and envious boyfriend can prove to be increasingly daunting. Hence, it goes without saying that a jealous partner can be nothing short of meddling, insidious, exasperating and bothersome. However, if you desire to deal effectively with a jealous boyfriend who is quite insecure, you will first need to understand the nature of the problem that you are confronting.

Getting an understanding of the problem of jealousy:

   The prime reason behind jealousy is more often than not, being apprehensive concerning intimacy and love and having more like a fretful and undecided kind of attachment. Such boyfriends typically keep fretting that their partners have no love for them or will in due course ditch them. Incongruously, boyfriends who are intensely jealous will time and again, act in a certain manner which turns their fears into reality.

How to deal with a jealous boyfriend:

The best way to deal with an increasingly suspicious and a highly jealous boyfriend is to deal with his anxieties and fears directly.

Talk to him about his apprehensions and fears:

It will help to a great deal if you let your boyfriend know that he can talk about the way he feels for you. So listening to him concerning his apprehensions and fears will help you to know what he is going through. Moreover, it stands to be imperative that you just do not discard his sentiments because doing this will only lead to misunderstandings and will not at all solve the problem at hand. Just ensure that you make him feel understood.

Be there for him and be receptive:

It is highly important that you stay receptive and available for your boyfriend’s needs. Hence, you need to bear in mind that if you are available when your boyfriend needs you the most, it will aid you in calming him down and making him feel at peace. Hence, if you every time make it obvious to your boyfriend that you can be banked upon, he will start trusting you instead of being suspicious about you. This stands to be easier said than done since it takes a lot of patience and often you will need to resist the desire of withdrawing from a highly difficult boyfriend.

Set your jealous boyfriend’s mind at rest:

It also aids in making your jealous boyfriend cognizant of the fact that you love him truly and you will forever be there for him and will together with him, sail through all that comes in life.

Parting words of wisdom state that while it is possible to make a jealous boyfriend feel secured, however, the amends will not come to pass overnight. You will need to act patiently and be calm yourself.

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June 14, 2012 at 10:26 pm

What the heck does that mean?

An as for the article, I agree, he will come around if you give him enough time to become more secure and work through his issues. Although, you can’t wait forever, and if he just can’t seem to get his jealousy in check then it may be time for the door. You can’t live in a state of negativity like that forever!
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Ozzy July 25, 2012 at 2:25 am

I agree with all of the above, though ladies. Keep in mind and don’t get upset or get all dissapointed in what the guy says if it’s somthing like he worries that you might leave him for some other guy since you seem awfuly close to some or one. Like said above listen to what he has to say. You know you are not going to fall for someone else or that nothing is going on with the other guy. So even if you feel insulted by what he says remeber that he loves you.

But if this does not work then you know what to do.

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