Finding a Girlfriend when You are New in Town

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by on September 8, 2011

Okay guys – this if for those that happen to be new to town, for whatever reason. Maybe you just got a new job, maybe you wanted to get closer to a family member, whatever the reason, you are along ways away from the place that you once called home. So if you are trying to find a date when you are the new guy in town – you better get to work, unless of course you are satisfied with spending many lonely nights together playing video games and chatting with old girlfriends on facebook. The reason that I am writing this is because I was a new guy in town before – and I knew that I had to find someone of the opposite sex to interact with, most of us guys to have special needs you know. So with that being said here is a list of tips that will help you in your journey to find a girlfriend when you are new in town.

Look Your Best at All Times

Keep yourself looking sharp, you want to make a good first impression. You have no idea how many opportunities you are going to have to meet women. It could be anytime, anyplace. At the grocery store, at work, at the gas pump while you are pumping gas, you just don’t know, this is why you have to look your best at all times. Don’t be afraid to shave everyday, don’t be afraid to get a damn hair cut once a week, and don’t be afraid to go out and buy some new clothes either.


Approach as Many Women as Possible

Unless you are naturally blessed with extremely good looks, you are going to have to do most of the initiating when it comes to finding a date when you are new in town. Unless you are someone that sits inside of the house everyday and never goes anywhere, you are going to be presented plenty of opportunity to approach women and strike up a conversation. I am not going to get too much into how to do this, but a simple “Hi” and some good eye contact with a smile can do wonders…..


Join a Gym

This may not be for everybody, but it is a good way to meet women when you are new in town. Not only that it makes women more approachable as the two of you already share a common interest. Remember the last two tips I talked about? Look your best and talk to as many women as you can. The worst thing that can happen is they have a boyfriend and he beats the living crap out of you, but if you stay in the gym – hey – you MAY have a better chance to defend yourself.


Join a Online Dating Site

This is a better option for those that are not the most social out there in the real world – but then again it is also a great option for those that have no problem at all approaching women, as online dating gives you the advantage of picking and choosing someone that shares similar characteristics with you. Here at LovesOasis we have plenty of helpful information for those that are new to online dating.

Being the new guy in town is tough at first, after awhile you are going to start to meet new friends, guy or girls, or both. Just keep a positive attitude and remember things will get better.

And one last thing – if you are new in town because you moved away from home to go to a college, then you should have absolutely no problem at all meeting women or new friends. If you do leave a comment and I will try to help the best I can :0

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knowledge February 6, 2012 at 7:17 pm

I believe on your words ? but how to aproch a girl in first meeting/ firstlook ? Am at the age of 28male. So on which place, i can find a girlfriend ?


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